It’s amazing how life changes and moves on. To think that I only wrote once in 2016 and haven’t since. Life has been full of it’s ups and downs since then. We’ve gone through moves (yes plural), and job changes. We’ve had to do major remodel on a house which included removing and replacing an exterior wall. One rusty nail in a foot, and one staple in the hand. Plus removing lots of water. We didn’t go fancy either with any of it. We’re frugal people. I’ll say this, carpet squares are awesome!! If you’re looking for some to carpet your whole house, a guest room, the play room, or make a rug even… check out: Biscuit’s Bargains. No affiliate link, nothing monetized. I just think they’re a great place. My boys flooded the living room from the kitchen. (Aimed the sprayer from the kitchen faucet) TWICE! And I just picked up the carpet tiles and hung them on the clothesline to dry. Once I mopped up the concrete subfloor, I replaced the tiles and all was good as new.
More to the point of the post. 🙂 Neglect… It’s easy to let things go by the wayside and forget about them. Since we moved to our most recent place, I’ve very easily kept up on laundry. Dishes are fairly good. General household still needs work. I go through spurts of being able to take care of it and then there are the times I need hubby to bail me out of the mess.
I went to Hawaii with my sister, mom, grandma, and grandpa for a week. First off, it’s great to take a vacation where you only need to really cover your airfare and food. Grandparents already covered the condo so we were able to ride along for free. For the flight, it’s a really awful amount of time in the air for someone who hates flying and especially when flying is painful. Yes we left before the big volcano activity but that’s not the point. We went on an excursion put on by Hawaii Forest and Trail and on the bus ride up to the hike starting point, they asked everyone to tell a bit about themselves including their passion. I realized that currently I don’t have one. Sure I love my family (hubby, kids, and dog). But for a personal passion… nothing. I used to crochet. I used to do calligraphy. I used to paint. I used to read books. I used to cook exciting new dishes. Get the point?
What do I do now? In the moment I spouted off Calligraphy even though I haven’t done it in ages.
So I started this post 7 days ago. See where the problems lie? I couldn’t get back to it for a week. Neglect. Most days I work on keeping up with the house, minding the kids, homeschooling, and working. I call it a big win if I manage to brush my hair that day. If it weren’t for the fact that hubby likes my hair long, I’d cut it all off to avoid the massive tangles.
I love it when people say “you just need to take some time for yourself”. Or “you need to make the time”. I can’t make time people!! We all get 24 hours in a day. No more, no less. Same goes for taking the time to teach my kids whatever that person deems important to them.
Next post will have to be about comparisons because I was just about to go into a whole thing about that which would make this waaaay to long. Maybe I’ll get lucky and it will come soon. I may forget. It may be another 2 years. Life isn’t an easy laid out plan where everything gets done.
Bottom line is that everyone is neglected. We neglect ourselves, we neglect our family, we neglect our responsibilities. There just isn’t enough time or energy to give everyone and everything the attention and consideration